The children in my branch have asked me to tell you this: They don't want to be required to be hugged, kissed, pinched, or petted by family this holiday season.
This is an important worry for some kids during the holiday season. Relatives from all over the world meet up and everyone loves the children, but the children are not comfortable (yet) around the extended family members.
Here are some examples I was given (family members names changed of course):
- Your kid doesn't want to hug Aunt Myrtle.
- They hate it when Grandpa Joe pinches their cheeks or rubs their hair.
- They don't want to want give Grandma Martha any "suga".
- And your kid don't care if cousin Pam hasn't seen the family since last